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Posted by on 2021/04/09 under Family

I'm a teenager girl almost an adult yet I haven't told my mom what my uncle's dad (not my mom's dad he's my grandma's boyfriend my uncle is the same age as me) did to me when I was around the age 6 or younger I still have this memory of what he did to me because it's wrong my uncle, sister, and I went to this man's room to watch tom and jerry (like we usually did) except he put his hand in my pants and rubbed his fingers I didn't understand what was going on but me not feeling comfortable with it was enough for me to pull his hand out & put it on his bed (where we were) he put his hand on my thigh & rubbed it but I just put I back on the bed. That was the only time this has happened to me with him yet I didn't learn about sexual abuse till a year later in school little did I know I would experience something even stranger with my uncle (his son who is the same age as me) when I was in elementary (we had moved away at the age of 6) I was probably 9 or something but we would go to my grandma's place (they had moved also) and for some reason when we were over my uncle had this strange habit of putting my feet in his mouth i thought it was strange but said nothing (that was my mistake) cuz later on when we were both in middle school he did it again all of us had somehow fallen asleep in my other uncle's room well when I woke up he was up I said a hello & laird back down hoping to get more sleep but he waited a but (to make sure I was asleep) to put my feet in his mouth he rubbed himself on the bed & went to grab my butt lucky my sister woke up so he had stopped…thing is I haven't told my mom about either of these things that happened to me. my twin sister, best friend & a close friend only know what this man & his son has done to me yet I still don't have the courage to tell my mother I don't even know if I should tell her at all I was a kid back then & could it really be called sexual abuse? I'm not sure what I do know is that I don't want to see them anymore seeing either of them makes me sick to my stomach and the fact that one of them is related to me upsets me when I told my sister what had happened she told me she had a worse experience with my grandma's boyfriend (he licked her private area but she kept kicking him so he stopped) what's the worse part was that my grandma was there when it had happened to my sister…..my sister is thinking of telling our mom when we move again (hopefully far away from the family).. should I tell our mom also?

2 thoughts on “Should I tell my mom?

  1. Anonymous says:

    I told my mom about my girlfriend. She was married when we first started dating and when I impregnated her.

    Her boyfriend broke up with her to have sex with other girls in college. He has no interest to get back with her.

    She was an angry lesbian that was still confused.

    She worked at a bank and just had a baby by a guy that cheats on her all the time.

    He will never be happy because he’s lost in his own misery.

  2. Anonymous says:

    You should both tell her! Please do! And where’s your dad? You should tell him too! That’s sexual harrasment! And molestation! You should definitely tell your mom! Both of you and tell her how uncomfortable they make you feel just seeing them and go faaaaar away from them.

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