Posted by Anonymous on 2012/09/16 under Friends Right now most of my friend have boyfriends and i don’t. As if that wasn’t depressing enough i feel like they have forgotten about me totally. I don’t have a very good enviorment at home and they know that, and still no one have asked me how i am i a looong time. I’ve been home doing nothing for the last too weekends and i’ve never felt so alone. And as i menthioned before home isnt really a good place for me to be, before i could always escape and go to my friends but now i feel like they don’t want me around because they wan’t to be with there boyfriend and when they are alone, they are to exhausted to hang out.
Go to the park… Go to the gym…Go to your local coffee shop…it doesn’t hurt to be alone… But I bet I if u get up and get out there you’ll meet someone who has lonely as you…and then maybe you two can keep each other company!!! Or go volunteer somewhere you’ll meet a lot of new people and gain more friends 😉
I can understand how you feel. I feel the same exact way except under different circumstances. I have a boyfriend but still feel just as lonely as you probably do. I used to have a ton of friends but then they all went away to college and made new friends and partied and what not while I stayed at home and commuted to a college. I have felt left out and alone ever since. It’s really hard to make new friends out of nowhere. Even though I have a boyfriend, he has friends he hangs out with a lot. So whenever he’s hanging out with friends, I’m generally sitting at home alone, depressed about having no friends. You might think that having a boyfriend is all you need or can fulfill complete happiness, but it’s not true. I am nowhere near complete happiness by just having my boyfriend. Every girl needs GIRL friends to hang out with, not just your boyfriend. As far as advice… I honestly don’t know what to tell you 🙁 Mainly because I am trying to cope with the same thing myself with feeling lonely with no friends. I don’t honestly know a solution to the problem. I do think it’s pretty crappy if your friends know that you don’t have a good home life, and they refuse to talk to you once they get a boyfriend or simply forget about you. They obviously don’t seem like that good of friends. However, I know that making new friends takes a lot of work and is hard. I don’t know how old you are, but maybe if you aren’t already in college, college might be your window out. College can be a great experience for people wanting to make new friends, etc. But only if you live on campus or fairly near campus. It’s hard experiencing everything from far away. Keep looking forward!!! I know everyone says this but when you are young, you still have so much more to life than where you are now. This generally helps me knowing that it will eventually get better and this can’t last forever. Sorry this is so long! but I hope it helped one way or another!!!