I’m a 22 year old, male. I’ve never had a girlfriend in my life before. I’m starting to feel scared now. I feel lonely, there’s hardly anyone I can talk to honestly. I don’t know if this is normal for a guy, but now I need a shoulder to cry on. I’m worried that something might be inadequate about me, not good-looking enough, not rich enough, not confident enough? But I’m smart though, I’m on the Dean’s List in school. I cling tightly to that one good point that I know for sure is mine. But it’s starting to not feel important anymore. It hurts so much. I’m tired. Life is tiring, and it hurts. Am I not good enough? I’m so lost now. If there is a God, help me, or kill me. I’m not suicidal yet though.
Be patient! Your looks and money doesn’t matter, you’re smart and that’s great! Stick to your family if they’re helpfull. Be confident about yourself, don’t let anyone or anything bring you down! Keep doing what you love try to make some friends at the school your at, everything will be fine 🙂
with time evryting will get better maybe the right person hasnt come along yet and u shud never let go of that one good point
Thank you both for your kindness. It’s nice to know someone cares enough to type a few kind words. You’ve made my life that much better. Thank you.
Im so sorry u feel like that. i feel the same way you do iv had boyfriends but they do nothing but bring me down like the guy im with now i had two kids with him and now all he does is tell me that since i no longer wiegh 130lbs ill never get someone. maybe i should have waited for someone like you.
Mate I am in the exact same position as you. 25 and haven’t had a girl. I was worried like you and kept putting myself down when my grandad and a really close girl mate of mine sat me down and told me to stop worring about stuff like that and to enjoy life and thank god for what I have got not be angry or plead him for things that I haven’t got. I really felt a shift in myself and after that I didn’t get a gril friend for 3 years but do you know what I had the three best years of my life. And yesterday I asked that really close girl mate out and she said ‘I was wondering when you were going to notice that I have loved you forever’ and I knew that I had loved her forever too.
I am a girl and I already love you. Because you aren’t like most of the jerks that I have dated who only care about themselves. I am impressed that you actually have feelings and you are opening up to a website for help. All you need to do is put yourself out there and girls will see you. Just be nice. Girls like nice guys in the end. .xx