Posted by Anonymous on 2020/10/01 under Life I am constantly feeling depressed and alone. My mother had me and my sister at a young age and my biological father was taken out of the picture due to his abuse. She did her best and I respect my mother or at least I did. She got remarried and had my two younger siblings. My older sister and I both agree that we're treated far different than them and I grew up always believing it was because we weren't my step-dad's kids. She loves us I'm sure but nowadays, I am treated with scorn and tossed to the side. I am nineteen but my life is controlled. No boyfriend, college only and don't talk back. I have to hide my relationship that they knew of before. My parents' didn't want me dating an atheist and having sex outside of marriage with a man who "has no morals being an atheist". Since last year, I've been called a whore basically and constantly degraded as lazy, selfish, incompetent, and dramatic. I cannot stand being in this house but my boyfriend lives too far away for me to afford living with him and drive to my college when needed. i was ok for awhile. I found a way to manage my life to where I could be somewhat happy… but now I am spiraling back into my suicidal mindset from last fall. I need to get out but I can't. My parents don't think I'm being treated unfairly or wrong at all. I don't want to do this anymore
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stay strong. its hard but try to think of the times you were happy, and what would have happened if you had given up before then. i hit a low this year, but then i met people who have changed my life. its hard but you can never predict the future. the right people will find you, it may take time but its worth it
Many mothers mean well but falsely tell children it is the father to blame as the fail to admit their own faults. Mothers are not perfect but they put faults on all others, especially the father as to create the illusion of stability and sanity.
Your father probably left the picture thinking he would have full custody of you. but mothers are always favored as the stable party even though the sleep with anyone that will help the pay the bills and create the illusion that a child molester is better than your biological father.
Females lie and manipulate 90% of all divorces with lies and deceits. If they will lie too and deceive God HIM-SELF(eve) what chance would a mortal man have against them.
The truth hurts, but don’t believe everything mommy tells you, she probably made up 99% of all the fallacy to keep your father from being able to contact you. and now uses the absence to support her claims.
No man wants to abandon a child, but the mother creates the environment and situations to keep him at bay and away. No man wants to spend a life in jail while some female claims Poor Poor pitiful me” under some false pretense.
In short, fathers are not the ones who are evil and ones to blame.
But they wil always and certainly take every dime of child support they can get. Most of which they spend foolishly on themselves and only 10% actually goes to the biological child welfare.
45% of the time the child is not even related to the so claimed biological father.
which the female will also use against him by telling the child the unknowing father contest that the child (you) are even related to them.
The father never even makes that contest in courts as they have no clue (women are deceitful and hid all truths). But since the mother knows better, and kids are not keen on legal matters, they will believe any BS the mother tells them.
They will always do so with 199% spite and hate as they no longer have the free ride and easy-life of sitting on their butt for life while the father kills himself daily as to put bread and water on the table.