I've been in a long diatance relationship with this guy for half year, we were very serious , he was gonna come see me in a couple months or so and we talked about our future together. We had planned everything. Literally everything. Us meeting, getting married, starting a family and so on. But one morning I woke up and I was mad at him because he had been ignoring me I guess. He'd stopped putting as much effort in the relationship and he said so himself .I told him he didn't have to reply to me anymore and he said wow followed by a sad face and I've been texting him ever since but he's not even opened my messages. There's no way for me to reach out to him. I've been crying my eyes out and self harming a lot. Just… do you have any idea why he left me all of sudden ? I want a blunt answer please , I'm thinking of overdosing on xanax
don’t end your life babe, I total understand where your coming from my boyfriend that I do the same s*** with, talk about my feelings with, talk about our future with everything. and he just hasn’t been putting in the work that he needs to and he has the never to say he loves me, but what do I know right? im still with the dumb ass. anyway what im trying to say is that men don’t have answers that we look for, men don’t give the love when we need it and how we want it unless we tell them straight up. don’t put anymore work into this. if he doesn’t text you back that is his problem he is missing the hell out, don’t hurt yourself over a man that plays you over like this, yeah you might be thinking, well he loved me and we was there for eachother and he said all these promises, yes he did girl. he did say all these promises but he didn’t keep them he didn’t try to keep you so girl get up from that bed go take a shower, smell good, look amazing and keep it walking we need more powerful ass girls in the world and Im not just talking about my ass, come back on here after you do that and let me know if you want my snapchat to talk more ill be glade to give it to you
-bella
Wow. Anon, I’m so sorry you’ve been going through something like this. Honestly, I’m not so sure why this has happened, but you seem like a wonderful, ambitious person. Just try to keep in mind that, chances are, it has nothing to do with you. He could be going through some things that he’s scared to talk to you about. He could be busy with work or school. Whatever you do, try to hang in there, alright? It sounds like the two of you have been in a pretty great relationship and that’s amazing for long distance (trust me, I know.) Don’t give up yet, okay? There’s so much of the world you’ve yet to explore.
I’m here for you, stranger.
Bella thank you so much that made me feel a lot better. But we did talk and he ended things. He said he stopped loving me. And I begged him to love me again. Like, think about it. I begged because I was and still feel like I am in desperate need of his love 🙁
And thank you too anonymous person 🙂 but I really can’t imagine going on without him. I’ve been taking pills to help me calm down but I’ve not been prescribed them and I’m still thinking about death…..
Hey, it’s no problem. We all need someone to talk to, right? And like I said, I get you. I’m so happy to hear that you’re still here, Anon. It’s a pretty crappy thing for the guy to do to you, and I get that it might seem like the end of it all, but you have to pull through. There are so many people that care about our, even when it doesn’t seem like it. If not in real life, them I can promise to you that I (and likely Bella) definitely do.
You’re truly amazing thank you so much ! I seem to be doing better though so I’m happy about that! How have you been ? I’m sorry I take ages to reply, I just never know when someone is gonna check this