I am a fool. I always talk foolish things in front of many people.My Image in front of my friends begin like a Fool(like Rahul in front of BJP).
They always make fun of me because I had that Image even I am much smart and handsome compared to them. But they always make fun of me
Tell me what should I do
Should I stop talking them all (but i am in college or also in hostel)
Should I start being Aggresive and If they even try to make my fun I will start fighting with them.
Should I quit caring them and never help them.
Should I start abusing as they do with me.
Please suggest me something what should I do?
But from now I stop caring about them and start to not give them a S***.
If they are toxic friends, then yes. You should stop talking to them. However, I don’t believe you should ‘ignore’ them. Be friendly. But, if there’s a time when they want to do something with you & you really feel it would be best for your personal self if you did not, tell them. But you don’t need to be rude and ignore them. Be mature.
No. Do NOT be aggressive towards them! And definitely do not fight them. Never ever stoop down low enough and get to their level. Lashing back at them with anger makes everything worse in the end. Of course, their words are hurtful but can not you step up to the plate & show them that you can be a much better person to them? Show them how to be a mature person? Never replay hateful actions with hateful actions. Basically, if you do that you are copying them. The same things that they are doing to you that you hate, you’d be doing the same things. Do you really want to be the same as them?
No. Don’t stop caring. It is vital for a human being to never stop caring for anyone. Not caring for a person is the same thing as hate. Because when you care for a person this means you have a love for them. You cannot care if you do not love. Do you want to have hate in your heart towards these so-called friends and drag it along with you for the rest of your life? Might sound silly, but yes. It will be a burden on you for the rest of your life. Because you know, unforgiveness is terrible. Now you probably need to take a step back from them & realize that they’re not true friends but that doesn’t mean you stop caring for them.
Do not abuse them. Take a step back. Tell them kindly and maturely that what they are doing to you is very hurtful and you don’t think you can handle it. Tell them you don’t think you can hang out with them anymore. And if they make fun of you for telling them this? Well that’s just because they know what they’re doing is wrong and need to let out their awareness somehow. I warn you, do not become like them. Showing them the same behavior that they showed you leads to terribleness.
I hope you make the right decisions. 🙂