Been there. Felt used. It sucks. Once you change your surroundings, that s*** will change. When they lean on you, take care of them, but start to lean back. It’ll be ok.
yup, I know the feeling all to well as well. your not alone!
Do things for yourself and when they come wanting and asking, be blunt and tell them no and tell they why just like you stated here.
Look at it this way, they wont come around or call you any less.
Might even make them realize your tired of being there when they are not! or shed some kick in the ass reality on them. One thing is for sure, your time will not be wasted on helping those who only use you.
Been there. Felt used. It sucks. Once you change your surroundings, that s*** will change. When they lean on you, take care of them, but start to lean back. It’ll be ok.
yup, I know the feeling all to well as well. your not alone!
Do things for yourself and when they come wanting and asking, be blunt and tell them no and tell they why just like you stated here.
Look at it this way, they wont come around or call you any less.
Might even make them realize your tired of being there when they are not! or shed some kick in the ass reality on them. One thing is for sure, your time will not be wasted on helping those who only use you.