when you expect another to change and get real bitter about each other, turning love into resentment, that's when you know you've overstayed your welcome… and sometimes, we feel the precipitations before they happen, but all the patterns lead us there, those little instances are not little. the little things make the big picture, and it's the little, unseeingly unimportant things that are ultimately remembered.
i think everyone loves differently and you gotta find someone who loves like you. it’s important as with being with someone who understands your mind also. so your lover or yourself are not wrong. initially we get in and with all the promises, then we try to change another when our own concrete values are challenged. none of us is wrong. then for the sake of not wasting the time, we fight instead. to keep the relationship? no but when we fight each other instead, it gets all painful and entangled… part of unconditional love and acceptance is through letting go.