There’s a guy in my class, and he wrote me he likes me. We don’t talk much at school but we used to text a lot on the Internet. Then he said that he liked me. He asked me to answer truthfully, so I said that I don’t like him like he does. Then he called me selfish, he started saying bad things about me. He said that I only think about myself, that I treat people good only because I want something in return. That hurt me. I told him that I do care about him, but he says its bullsh*t. I don’t know what to do. I’m scared that I hurt him and now he will hate me. I can’t say that we were really good friends but I think it’s weird that he changed his relationship to me so quickly. I really don’t want everyone in the class to hate me because of this. I really don’t know what to do. Now he hates me..
it’s not ur fault , either he has problems expressing his feelings or he just doesn’t get the idea that you don’ like him back..
i say just tell him that you will give it a try, plus it won’t hurt u if you give it a try .. maybe you’ll develop feelings in the future.. and if it doesn’t work just tell him that u gave it a try and u still don’t have intrest in him..
that’s all i gotta say
hope it works out!
I would just ignore the hate and move on. It won’t last forever. But definitely don’t date someone if you don’t like them because of pressure. It is your feelings. And if someone does not like you because you don’t feel the same way, that is there problem. Who really cares if everyone in the class hates you because soon it will all just be a story someday. I am proud of you for telling him how you feel. Just let life move itself on. You did what you had to do .xx