Posted by Anonymous on 2012/12/04 under Uncategorized I consider myself a strong lady, Ive been through many struggle in my life abuse being one of them. I have a really low self esteem I dont consider myself to be pretty as much as I’m told that I am, I have more insecurities than most people think, I have had relationships many of which that have left me more heart broken than the last, but I met this guy in college my first semester just randomly came and sat beside me and started talking and got my number, weeks went on and I actually started working with him, and liking him even more, he was a big flirt texted me saying “hey beautiful” and things like that but wouldnt date me. I immidiately labled him as a “player” we would get in little arguments and eventually he would not reply for the rest of the day. few more months passed and we hooked up and still didnt date me we then got in a huge fight and he didnt talk much after that, 2 months passed and we were back to normal again and I started dating someone he immidiately acted jealous and always said he missed me and started hanging out with me more which made my boyfriend jealous I ended it with my boyfriend after 3 months and we just seem to be getting closer and closer he stays at my house occasionally, he comes over and hangs out, we go see movies and stuff but were still not in a relationship. it really sucks because people from work consider us together because they say they can see there is something between us but its like he cant give up the “single life” or the other girls. i dont know but its so confusing and I feel like each day I spend with him I start falling for him. And I cant just not talk to him because he’s my best friend I care alot about him, he make my day a little bit brighter each time I see his face. Im really scared Im falling in love with someone it seems I cant even have!!!
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seriously? Ditch him.. ditch the loser who can’t let go, but won’t hold on. You’ve got know that you’re worth more than that. Toss your insecruties out the window,(I know i say that like it’s an easy thing, and am sure it isn’t, but give it a shot), and raise your standards. Love is the most amazing thing when it’s given back, but one of the most trying emotions if its a one way deal. You shouldn’t have to ask him to get into a relationship with you, that’s his job. Don’t be that piece of ass he comes home to every night. Don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing that he’s got you emotionally tied to him. Go out without him, don’t respond to his texts and calls right away like i’m sure you probably do. Go a couple days without texting him. Keep yourself busy and away from this guy. If he want’s you, and realizes you no longer want him. He’ll fight for you. Heck and if he doesn’t want to put in the effort to get you than good riddens he can go and find some one else who will put up with his garbage. Well i’ve got to get out of here i wish you the best of luck with your friend. take care
How much time passed since you broke up with you boyfriend? Maybe he thinks its to early for you?idk,let him know its not?shattered_halo had some point there too tho,gl
I have known him a year, waaay before the guy I dated. and I cant just let him go, He shows he cares but he just cant committ. Its like hes right for me and wrong for me at the same time. but I am getting stronger feelings for him by the day. and its not like Im a piece of ass Ive known him a year and we only had sex twice but he has slept over many times we just like sleeping beside eachother.