Posted by Anonymous on 2015/08/01 under Uncategorized My best friend for so many years always lets me down. I can’t remember the last time she ACTUALLY did something nice for me, or showed she cared and pushed the boat out for me. I have done SO much for her, basically her life would not be the way it is now had it not been for me sharing everything I have found or made for myself with her. She might tell me she appreciates it once in a while, but she doesnt show it. She doesn’t show me much respect, almost always have something negative or self rightious to say about the stuff I do.
One of the things that upsets me the most is that she never invites me to things, she never asks if I want to go somewhere or do something, she will almost always ask someone else. Or even if its a group thing I;ll never be the first one she calls. And whenever I really want or need her to go somewhere with me, or say how much I would appreicate her to accompany me to an event or something which means a lot to me she will never make the effort to come along, even if shes free if shes just not too interested she wont, if shes got anything else ‘better’ to do then forget it. For example, theres an event tomorrow which would mean SO much for me to go but no one else can make it and its out of town and not really something you can go to alone but she had work (could have requested off if she gave a s*** or changed the shift but she doesn;t) its an event that means sooo much to me, I;m supposed to be her best friend, but she cant make the effort at all to acomany me. But tonight, she literally skipped work to go to some dinner with a guy she met on the internet two weeks ago. how the f*** do u think that made me feel.
That bring us onto her with guys. I cant even begin to tell you how f***ign annoying she is with guys. It;s f***ing tragic and embarrasing, yeah I\m FAR from perfect, but she just becomes a f***ig bad friend as soon as theres even a whiff of a half way decent guy. Shes going away with this guy from the internet the two weeks before we move out of our house which we have had a nightmare with all year so I’m left with sorting this s*** hole out. yay. my last two weeks here living with people i dont like. shes got one week to sort everything. its not gunna f***ing happen. and when she comes back we are supposed to share a room for a month and i barely even want to spend an hour with her. i dont want to live with her next year. I get nothing from this friendship. It makes me feel like a f***ing pathetic idiot that i rely on her to put some effort in and come to do thing with me which she doesnt want to do and she doesnt even want me there at the events she goes to. i feel likes shes embarrased of me but needs me as im the person who introduced her to all her firnds. I get nothing from this friendshp appart from meaningless chats, nostaligia and the occasical shoulder to cry on, but only in brief moments.
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I have a similar problem with you too. But this time, my best friend is ignoring me. She barely goes out with me and every time I ask her out. She always has an appointment with her other ‘best friends’