Posted by Anonymous on 2015/01/29 under Uncategorized I know it’s kinda weird feeling but I really can’t help it! She’s seriously getting on my nerves as I grew older. Years passes and every time we had an argument, it’s getting worse. And thanks to her I learned a lot by fighting back on her. Because her words are unbearably annoying , and .. I can’t stand it the way she said to me, It’s so mean and hurts my feeling many times. Esp. When she usually ask me “why? Am I your house keeper/helper” basically I didn’t ask her to clean those area that I’m using which I can clean it my self. Or rather she’ll tell me that It’s her house so I should get out of here..? wtf was that. I was just suggesting something about helping out on buying a distilled water because clearly she’s wasting it. Not drinking it. So we ended up arguing about this Nonsense and now she’s blabbering stuffs like I should look for my own house and stuff. Is she telling me to look for my own house or leave??. F***. That pisses me off. Honestly I can’t afford that at the moment. And I’m working on it. I seriously don’t like those things that coming out from her sick mouth. The thing is if she didn’t ask for us (I mean me and my sister) from the beginning, she didn’t have a problem and maybe she’s f***ing happy in the sense that she can call everything “her’s”. PROBLEM SOLVE. Therefore I conclude that she’s a materialistic retarded mother. One proof she’s not contended of what we gave her instead she’ll tell you that it’s not enough and If you cannot lend her money. She will make you feel that your the most nastiest person in the world.
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Have you ever asked her to talk to you about the reasons why she decides to say all of these things to you? Do you let her know how much these things that she says to you hurt her, and that they’re really wrong for her as a mother to say in the first place? She sounds angry or upset about something, maybe you should also ask her if there’s anything else going on with her that’s been bothering her, and if there is that you’re there for her to talk to if she needs. Sometimes there are things bothering someone, but they’re not sure if they want to talk about them, so they’ll take out the built of anger and tension on people around them, but it’s worth a try to talk to her calmly about it.
When you grow older you will get cranky too. Because 1. you’re older- that sucks- 2. you will be leaving your kids behind too -not immortal- 3. you want your kids to be supermen and superwomen to be able to care for themselves, even if you show it in the most annoying and frustrating way, like picking on their tiny nasty habits and rubbing it in their faces.
Just bear with it, because you know you love her even when you’re in full on wrath mode. Save up, minimize contact/clashing and move out peacefully.
Sincerely,
TopHat