Hearing people talk about this scale always messes me up. People throwing numbers on people based on how fit, how thin, how tall, how big-breasted, how plump-assed just drives me up the wall. Obviously I wouldn’t feel that way if I was considered attractive. I was raised to not bother with my looks since there was lots to be desired and focus on making a career for myself. I’m an adult, I have a nice place, I work as an architect, I dress nicely, blah blah blah, but I’m held back by negative beliefs about myself. I think I’m a 4 at best and I only think that way because I hear so much damn conversation about these scales all the time. The part that makes it worse is that I don’t think my partner loves me anymore because of my 4-status. It’s heart-breaking knowing that you love someone more than they love you and it could be changed if I was more attractive. I feel stuck. And I wonder if we should separate so they can find someone who will satisfy them emotionally, physically, and visually.
Don’t worry dear you will meet someone one day who will accept you as you are.I dont know about any theoretic consolation but i have my own realistic tale.I am horribly ugly, height 4’10, face covered with acne,complexion dusky,hair dryer and unmanaged wavy which I have to tie everytime so overall I have no scope to flaunt my any such assets .But i have a lovey Dovey relationship who have accepted me as I am,hooked for around 6 years?.So the point is these scale thing doesn’t explain the real you so just get over it and stay calm.God bless you !
Are you for f***ing real? Both of you? No man should ever look at his woman and think that she is less than a 12 out of ten. Dammit, who the hell invented the 1-10 scale huh? It’s so freaking dumb. If they love you they see no “flaws”. Everyone has good and bad traits. Everyone is beautiful. And if your boyfriend does not love you it’s not because you are unattractive, but it’s because he probably is a blind dumbass. End of story ladies. That came from a guy. I hope you realise you are both beautiful as hell.